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My Bar

When (okay, if) I have a bar, and it’s going to shut down, and it’s the last night of the bar, and you come to celebrate the closing, well – it will be a lot more fun that it was at Tambaleo last night.

Not to knock the birthday girl, who is currently calling Lindsey Lohan to try and find a good rehab clinic… not that she drank a lot, just that she fell a lot…but the bar ended up not being as excited as I’d hoped. I envisioned some streamers, some cheap drinks, some funny music and some toasts. Maybe even sharpies to destroy the place and write goodbye messages on the walls. That seems in order to me. But then again, I am known for knowing how to throw a party. Whatever.

Snippy and co. had a great time, and that’s all that matters. There wasn’t any drama, everyone made it home, and of course I cooked at 3am, which is what I do best.

I’m glad we are done with birthdays for a while.

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We’ve Got Pictures!

So I’m finished updating the blog about our New Zealand trip, I hope you all enjoy the photos and the little bits of our story. You can click the link at the top of the home page for the day by day posts. MK took over 1800 pictures, a few too many to get up here! I picked what I thought were the best to give you an idea of just how beautiful it was.

We were so lucky to have gotten the chance to go, and to have taken our time and seen so much.

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Happy Birthday!!

So I know it’s been a little crazy over here at somegosoftly, but there’s been so much going on!!

It’s been a lot of fun reliving my trip through the little posts about it. To be sure, there’s so much more that there aren’t words for, everything was so beautiful and life changing. There’s not enough room for all the pictures, MK took 1800!! I should be caught up in a day or two…

The trip really inspired me to be more positive and a better listener. It was funny to come home so anxious to tell everyone about the trip, but instead to let them go on and on about what I missed in their lives while I was away. Maybe it was good timing for a decision like that.

It was great to get home in one piece, and we made it literally 30 minutes before there was ice on the roads. We got home and bought the last gallon of milk and bag of pasta (seriously) in the store and rushed home. It gave us a chance to recuperate before having to do anything, us being trapped at home for two days.

I was close to a nervous breakdown about how I couldn’t go out on my birthday without getting my hair and nails done, but thankfully it defrosted Thursday – just in time! – and I got “done up”. Thursday I ended up going out with WB and Snippy, et al. We went to a silly bar downtown but had a pretty good time.

So Friday was the big birthday, and I didn’t feel like doing anything, so I didn’t. That was kind of nice. KE and KE brought me to Sherlock’s, which was the perfect place to be on a birthday where you feel a little old for the first time, we were the youngest ones there. Snippy met us up and we laughed at the band and the dancers, and, well, everything. I ended up having a good time.

Saturday I couldn’t figure out what to do but KD suggested Vivo, a great choice. There were about 10 of us that then met up with some other friends at Whisky Bar. It was actually one of my best birthdays.

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But It Is His Birthday

RD does not celebrate his birthday. That is funny if you know me and birthdays. Birthday, in my world, is free pass to, I don’t know, go out and black out and kick cops bikes over and throw up in front of your little cousin and then at the Salt Lick too. While your Mom is staying with you. So, it’s strange having a friend that’s “not that into it”.

MK managed to get a whole new set of glasses made at Eyemasters so that he could see on our trip if his contacts didn’t cooperate, then we had some Subway for lunch. When we finally woke RD up, we went through the SFMOMA, which was alright, as far as art museums go. We also took him to a brew pub, called the 21st Amendment (I didn’t get it at first – look it up if you’re slow too) and had a big old ‘We’re out of here” dinner. So that it wasn’t all about RD. Right. He took us to a bar decorated like a jungle but with a woman singing Christmas carols. That was pretty much our Christmas. We said our goodbyes, and went back to our hotel to get packed up and ready for our 14 hours of air travel.

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I honestly had such a blast in that city. It was my first trip to CA, which seems dumb ’cause that’s a place most people make it to early in their travels. But to have two great friends there to show us around made it extra super double great.

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The Ignorant Learned

Saturday morning we went out at 10am on a tour of downtown provided by the hotel. We must have been feeling really touristy. He talked a lot about the city and it’s history and architecture, and I learned that that was a city I very clearly knew nothing about – it is apparently common knowledge that it should be underwater. Whatever.

We walked up through North Town and had some real Italian for lunch, saw City Lights, the famous bookstore; and the bar Kerouac used to hang out at. Cool.

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There is this back alley type thing of about 2,000 stairs to hike up that is a short cut to Coit Tower, where some parrots hang out. We went this secret route to the tower and got our city views. RD had a Christmas party to attend, so RB took us to Bubbly, the champagne bar. It was dead, so we ran through the Hyatt, which had a huge Christmas display of miniatures, and then to the Embarcadero.

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This is pretty much the coolest part of the city. They had a mini ice skating rink set up at which for some reason we ended up sending messages between teenagers at the top of our lungs. RB took us to about 30 spots of interest that he’d found, including a bar with a giant chair, and a firehouse that we took our picture in front of in the middle of the road. We made it to the side of RD’s town to see him briefly then almost fell asleep standing up, so we went home to sleep!

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Started In San Fran…

sealsGetting to New Zealand, we travelled through San Fran in order to see my oldest and dearest friends, the Ryans. We arrived Friday and took ourselves from the hotel to Fisherman’s Wharf. It’s a really cool dock style shopping area/strip mall. There are these wooden docks that giant seals lay out on. Giant. And they fight, and make a lot of noise. Pretty entertaining.

 

ChinatownWe took our time at this huge restaurant where we could see them from – eating for about two hours. RD called and met us up later that night for Na’an and Curry, which was one of the best Indian restaurants I’ve been to. He then took us to a bunch of the neatest bars he’d found in the city, including one called Lu Pao, in Chinatown, that was hilarious.

 

 

 

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Washington For Thanksgiving

I had such a blast hanging out with MK’s family, now mine too… in DC for the holiday. We played mah jong almost every night. Contrary to your thought, it is not the alternative to solitaire, it’s a four player sort of gin rummy that gets it’s own TABLE. I don’t know about you, but I was impressed. I won once. But if I’m ever on Jeopardy and they show the Chinese symbol for “West” or “Prosperity”, I have a chance of getting right. Or confusing it with “White”. Hmm.

We did the whole touristy thing, and that was lovely. It’s good to check things like that off your list. I know I’m biased, but I scored a pretty cute family of in laws, especially MK’s little sister:

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What? You don’t see the resemblance? You’re silly.

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More On Vegas

We stayed at the Mandalay Bay, which is the worst of any hotel that I’ve ever stayed at. There was limited easy access to food and drinking, and I could hear every last sound of every last person as they came to bed. And it smelled funny. And the bathrooms in the casino were yucky.

We shopped, which I haven’t really spent much time doing in Vegas before. You can’t buy too much due to all the walking and carrying, as I found out halfway through a day of walking and carrying too much. There are a lot of neat little boutiques and things to see while you shop, which is all primarily at the Venetian, Caesar’s and the Aladdin, which is currently being turned in to a Planet Hollywood casino. Bleh.

The interesting thing about this trip was definitely the array of cab rides, as one of our companions would chat it up for the ‘scoop’. These people are crazy. One guy doesn’t wear his seat belt because he was choked with it once. One guy walked across the border and married a Dutch girl. We learned all about the City Center Project, Vegas’ most expensive undertaking, where there will be rooms you can live in and rent out when you’re out of town and make a little money on.

We went down to the old strip, another thing I’ve never done. It was a little sketchy, but a lot of fun, something totally different. I had no idea what to expect. Don’t ever order a mixed drink (eew) but otherwise you’re safe. The tables are full of helpful friendly dealers that will help you learn to play. The light shows and attractions were neat as well.

The thing that struck me about Vegas this trip were the sheer number of people fighting. Perhaps I was always too drunk to notice in the past, but maybe Vegas isn’t a good place for couples. PH and I were cracking up at every turn seeing these huge arguments. It lead to a ‘cheers’ each time we saw someone fighting while we were drinking, because we were having good times.

Here’s us, and Elvis, well, two Elvises, (is that Elvii?) for you:

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What Now?

This book thing kept me motivated to blog. Now, I’m going to put it in a lock-box for the rest of the month, to start the editing process come the new year, with new perspective. Maybe that makes you happy, since that wasn’t all that exciting. Maybe that makes you want to cry. I doubt it, but thanks.

So what will it be now? The good news is I think I’m getting better and better at remembering things to write. The bad news is I’m leaving and won’t be back until after New Years, by that time everyone will forget all about me. Sigh.

On the plane home last night, I read an article that got me thinking. Of all people, it was about Nicole Kidman. She said,” Your life can have mystery. I don’t really want to understand it all; that’s fine by me. I can go to my deathbed and not have a complete understanding of myself.”

I like that thought. Completely different than any thought that would EVER cross my mind, but then again, I never married Tom Cruise.

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